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Your sexual experiences

These are experiences uploaded by Sexperience site users

  • Yes they can although the 'experts' (usually men)insist that it is urine, but both my partner and myself ejaculate when we come although I do it in larger quantities than she does and with more force. I can soak a bath towel and the sheet and have been known to hit the bedpost at the bottom of the bed (about 3 feet away). We find that happens most often when I am being penetrated anally in doggy style. I'm not sure what you mean by normal ladies I assume you mean women who are not in porn movies, I can assure that me and my partner are just a couple of normal ordinary middle-aged lesbians who have a fantastic sex life.”

    Sharron answers Can woman really ejaculate? I've heard about female ejaculation, and I was wondering, how many normal ladies out there actually experience this? And what's it like?
    10th Sep 2008

  • people always told me it's not to bad! let me tell you this, it is!
    its not a pain you get over, and it doesnt hurt down there..its like a huge period pain.
    but nothing hurts more than the 2nd time, maybe its because u no whats comin, but yeah..the first few times arent nice!”

    [No first name supplied] answers Does it hurt for the girl when they first have sex?
    10th Sep 2008

  • No not if your happy and relaxed, and with the right person you trust just enjoy it.”

    [No first name supplied] answers does ur first time hurt as much as people say ??
    10th Sep 2008

  • YES the first time hurts my first was only like 2 weeks ago wit my man i mean if you trust him, and you are ready then go on do it but i cant say it dosent hurt but as my boyfriend was gental and worked with me we both lost our virginties together in love”

    [No first name supplied] answers Does it hurt for the girl when they first have sex?
    10th Sep 2008

  • Hi,
    I know just how you feel once i was having sex with my boyfriend and the condom split. I know you must be scared and yes there is a risk because a man secretes pre-ejaculate fluid containing sperm into your vagina before he comes. Get a home pregnancy kit or if thats not possible go to your nearest family planning clinic or connect for a confidential test. they wont tell your parents and can advise you from there. hope all goes well for you good luck xx”

    jade answers I recently had unprotected sex, I wasn't on my period at the time and the guy I was with pulled out but could I still be pregnant? I am worried as I am only 17.
    10th Sep 2008

  • I'm 25 and I stopped counting after 20, I reckon my number is somewhere in the mid 30s. The key thing here is that it shouldn't really matter. People have sex for many different reasons, and enjoy sex in many different ways so we shouldn't be so quick to judge others or feel ashamed of ourselves. Just make sure it's safe!”

    [No first name supplied] answers How many sexual partners do most people have before the age of 25
    10th Sep 2008

  • Either the G-spot, or the more common one, the Clitoris.”

    [No first name supplied] answers Where are all the spots on a woman that would make her orgasm?
    10th Sep 2008

  • Yeah, it definately counts as cheating. My experience is what i found on my partners computer. I found a VERY graphic MSN conversation between him and another girl... To say the least i was heartbroken, i felt ashamed, betrayed and that everything i'd worked at in the relationship had fallen apart. If your with someone, then they should love you, and only you. Having sexual texts or conversations in general (including implied) is basically saying that the sender would prefer being with that person instead, both physically and emotionally.”

    [No first name supplied] answers Do u reckon havin phone and txt sex counts as cheating?
    10th Sep 2008

  • i beleive that intimacy is the combining of one soul in two bodies.
    i feel intimacy is an important part of a successful life, and without it you are an empty shell of a person.
    If i didn't have the intimacy that i do with my boyfriend then i don't know how i would ever cope.
    I love him so much it sometimes pains me, i miss him even when we are together.”

    Mathew answers What does 'intimacy' mean to you?
    10th Sep 2008

  • Depends on the woman and on what's turning her on at the time and on a few other factors too probably. There are no magic buttons to press to make her cum. Sure - there are particular hot spots but if you only concentrate on these then it can make for really boring sex. But don't let that put you off. 90% of the fun is exploring. Try kissing and caressing and teasing various parts of her body and listen to her responses. Ask her what she likes. And don't forget - for most women it's not all about the orgasm. Most days I would prefer to be teased and teased for 20 mins without cumming than have a low-impact, 2 min, quickie orgasm. In the long run it makes me feel much sexier.”

    [No first name supplied] answers Where are all the spots on a woman that would make her orgasm?
    10th Sep 2008

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