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im 46 and have not had sex since 1993. I was 27 when i first had sex with a girl. I told her i was a virgin and as it happen so was she. So honesty can be the best policy. ps once i started i couldnt stop until we split up”

She might of guessed already you never know but just tell her and see how it goes u will soon find out by the way she reacts you never know some people are turned on by the fact that there partner is a virgin it makes them feel better and more confident”

Watch the movie "40 years old virgin" and use the method that "Andy" used in the film. Well, not all of that method, but you can tell your girlfriend that your still a virgin, when she's not suspects it. It will be a surprise for her and I think she's going to keep on loving you. And you're going to love to have sex, I promise.

(Sorry for my bad grammar, I'm Swedish)”

I am a 25 year old virgin. I would definitely tell someone if I met them because a relationship is all about trust so be honest from the start. If she doesn't mind and still wants you its better than lying to her and her finding out.”

Tell her, that way she will be gentle with you and understanding. She will certainly respect you alot more for your honesty. Start how you mean to go on, and enjoy the experience. But if you are worried then there are other things to do other than sex which are well worth experimenting with.”

Everyone has a slightly different technique when it comes to sex; some being more experienced than others. It really matters little that you are a virgin, as together you will find your own unique plateau. There really is no need to tell your g/f about your lack of experience; if she really loves you, you will both be too carried away with the wonder and excitement of the moment for it to matter. I wish you every happiness together. Good luck!”

if you are scared 2 be honest then dont.your proberley more scared that you dont know what 2 do.relax do something romantic 2 start like cook her a meal with flowers get a bottle of wine in and have a evening on the sofa. tell her how beutiful she is then lean in 4 a kiss corress her skin with lights down low and im sure everythin will be great from there.”

yee, i think you'd be better off telling her asap. If it changes anything in teh relationship, then it probably wasn't going to work anyway.”

i think it would be best to be honest. i mean the first time generally everyone would be a bit 'crap' at first; but this is normal until you gain more experience. i would be honest and tell her.”

The best thing you could ever tell her is the truth”

If she minds she is not worth it, tell her and see what happens, otherwise you'll never know.

sex isn't everything. ;)”

I say it's best to be honest.”