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Ricki answers Have you ever felt used?

This video mentions one night stands, regret, and rejection

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  1. I met a lovely guy on a night out and we got on really well. He acted like a gentleman and was very sweet. We went back to his for coffee, which ended up leading to sex. After we had sex he told me he had a girlfriend and that he was sorry. I left his house feeling used, cheap and upset. I thought he was a geniuine guy. I have now learnt the hard way that if you don't know the person well, it is not worth the pain and risk in sleeping with them.”

    Posted by Emma on 1st Apr at 8:53PM (flag as inappropriate)

...you like them as a person so when they give you a lift home and drop you off and that's it - you feel a bit used…”

Ricki, 26

Sex facts

  • An estimated 44% of Britons have had a one night stand in the past year.

Other people answering Have you ever felt used?

  • Video by Sarah

    “I'd started seeing someone and it's turned out they've just wanted me for sex... ”

    Sarah, 19

  • Video by Shantelle

    “I've been single for a long amount of time and I've said that's it I’m not waiting for the one I'm going out tonight I want to have sex. ”

    Shantelle, 27

  • Video by Tara

    “because I wasn’t actually looking for a meaningful relationship with them it didn’t really matter”

    Tara, 39

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