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Peter answers How did you lose your virginity?

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    Posted by qucqdrwzxc on 23rd Oct at 4:35PM (flag as inappropriate)

  2. Thank you Peter for sharing that - my first time was this year, I'm 29, I wondered how it took me so long - that's 15 years of wondering but not being bothered about it - I was relaxed and happy when it worked out with someone I'd known for five years... who as you so nicely put it was from the 'male catalogue' - I think the actual age is not important but instead the anticipation and the experience, which for me was absolutely great. I hope yours was too!”

    Posted by Alex on 1st May at 1:56PM (flag as inappropriate)

  3. How did you tel that it was the right time to start ?”

    Posted by [No First Name Supplied] on 3rd Apr at 9:44AM (flag as inappropriate)

  4. I'd been with my first love for about 2 months which was a bit quick really but we both felt ready. i was a month away from my 16th. WE were both virgins which made it special we were together for 4 and a half years after and engaged for 2 and a half. Don't regret it for a second.”

    Posted by zoe on 16th Feb at 11:54AM (flag as inappropriate)

  5. Im 17 and i lost m virginity to my boyfriend that i have now been with for 7months. I lost my virginity to him in the 1st 2weeks, i know it was abit soon but it felt right as me and him just clicked. He wasnt a virgin when we slept together but that doesnt bother me because he said he feels connected when we have sex.”

    Posted by Justine on 10th Nov at 4:57PM (flag as inappropriate)

  6. Hello im John and approaching 40 but still a virgin. Any advice on how to give it to someoone who is worth giving this gift to.”

    Posted by John on 6th Oct at 1:49PM (flag as inappropriate)

  7. It was about 2 weeks afte my 16th birthday. Me and my mate had been on the town and were staying at her boyfriends and this lad I had only just started meeting was staying too. He didnt pressure me once but I felt pressured by my friend and in the end did it. It caused a lot of problems for me and my boyfriend because I had felt pressured into doing it.”

    Posted by Kelly on 17th Sep at 7:06PM (flag as inappropriate)

  8. i was 19 when i lost mine, to my partner. i was invited around to his to watch a film, we got comfy on the sofa and had a few drinks. after the film we both got up to go to bed as i was staying over on the sofa. he hugged me, then he kissed me and it all went from there.”

    Posted by Aden on 16th Sep at 8:39PM (flag as inappropriate)

I was 35 years old in actual fact. Er, something of a late starter. ”

Peter, 43

Sex facts

  • It is estimated that between 6 and 8% of the UK population is gay, lesbian or bisexual.
  • The average ‘coming out’ age for young gay, lesbian and bisexual people is 14.
  • The average age when people in the UK lose their virginity is 16.

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    “After I done it I felt happy and pleased that I had done it and good but I didn't feel like I needed to do it again anytime soon…”

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  • Video by Raj

    “It was nervous time for me ‘cos I knew it was the first time for my wife as well. ”

    Raj, 37

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