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Mike answers How do you keep sex fresh?

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  1. Thank you ive looked at all ur vt's and its helped me alot but i still carnt pluck up the currage to tell my mum and dad about me being gay :( but ty for the advice”

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 10th Oct at 7:30PM (flag as inappropriate)

  2. what i recommend to do is to first make sure the house is empty, then get dressed up in sexy lingerie, take a couple of photos that you like using an old instant camera. leave a trail of rose petals up the stairs with a picture of you every now and then, let the trail lead under the bed room door and put a couple of rose petals on the bed. leave the door open a bit for when he comes in. put candles around the room if you want to add effect, use plain candles of all sizes in bunches around the room with little ones trailing in between(not burning anything lol). good luck ladies”

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 6th Oct at 4:56PM (flag as inappropriate)

  3. My First time relationship was not all that great I also have a mild learning disability and i was abused this happend about 5 to 6 years ago and i have been single ever since, there can be manipulation in a relationship from your partner to do what he wants you have to be in control or equal Control so it doesnt destroy you or your partner do not attempt dangerous sex beause this shouldn't ever happen in a relationship. A relationship needs to be at alevel where you can understand what you both want dont Rush in to it and Take your Time”

    Posted by anne on 30th Sep at 8:29PM (flag as inappropriate)

  4. Absolutely being confident with your partner means you can ask what they would like or talk openly if you have any problems. Myself and my partner are always affectionate everyday, little kisses, cuddling up or holding hands even when your out with the kids. Just keeps that intimacy alive with the touch and closeness outside the bedroom helps in the bedroom!”

    Posted by lucy on 23rd Sep at 8:06PM (flag as inappropriate)

  5. we like to try out differnt things and other posistions..and from different situations..for example the other day i had come out of the shower and as i walked out the bathroom door my partner was stood there. he then kissed me on my neck and ripped the towel of me then we had sex as i was up agaisnt the wall..it was relaly exciting to do it in the differnt secumstances.”

    Posted by becky on 22nd Sep at 8:04PM (flag as inappropriate)

  6. I totally agree, I love to surprise my boyfriend with little gifts that I've made or a surprise kiss ever now and then.”

    Posted by chloe on 10th Sep at 5:39PM (flag as inappropriate)

I love I love surprising people like just while while they're doing something really innocuous like the washing up or something.”

Mike, 21

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    “I used to play sort of these games, and one evening my other half was working late and he used to live quite a way from me, so I would arrive at his house whilst he was at work.”

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