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  1. hey, i kissed another man and said to my partner sorry....then it happend again! for no reason at all! i think when young people are not with there partners when they are out having a good night the best thing is not to drink, for me it made me feel this odd type of way seein all my friends with there partner and mines was at home it just made me feel, weird. if you really do love your partner then do not be unfaithful, if you feel that you are going to be unfaithful in that moment get out asap, cause if you dont to little too late and then ur left heart broken because you have mucked ur life up and ur partners life. so unfair!”

    Posted by Sarah on 1st Apr at 4:12PM (flag as inappropriate)

  2. I've been with my wife for 15 years and cheated on her about 70 times. Its nothing I'm happy with doing. But sadly many things have made me the terrible man I am now. Its mainly a sexual addiction that has developed from being married to someone with no sexual desire.”

    Posted by Matt on 1st Apr at 12:54PM (flag as inappropriate)

  3. Cheating on someone is the most disgusting thing you can do, because if you can hurt them that must you obviously don't care about them otherwise you wouldn't do it.
    Also if someone cheats on you, you cant ever trust them again because theyve already betrayed you again and all you can trust is that eventually it will probably happen again, being drunk is never an excuse, because if you let your self get drunk in a situation that you may end up cheating in you are consciously do it!..........
    Yes a relationship can sometimes work when one of the people is extremely forgiving but someone who is that kind and forgiving shouldn't have to be with someone who would treat them that badly.”

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 16th Dec at 7:58PM (flag as inappropriate)

  4. I have been with my partner 2 years. After i told him I'd been unfaithful it all went wrong. He couldn't trust me (I don't blame him ) I didn't know what to say and i could feel he didn't love me as much any more. I have never felt so guilty in my life or regretted something as much as that in my life. If i could take it all back i really would but i cant so i have to try and forget about it. But i know he wont ever forget about it - its always going to be at the back of his mind. I just hope one day we can move on with life and one day he'll see i was just a stupid kid and how i promise and swear i'll never do it again”

    Posted by Amy on 8th Dec at 10:14PM (flag as inappropriate)

  5. I have been unfaithful with my partner twice with someone where interourse happened, i felt like he didn't want me and was always horrible recently he dumped me because he felt we weren't happy that cut me up so much i haven't told him about the mistakes ive made and we are now trying again and i'm just going to forget it happened”

    Posted by shell on 8th Oct at 6:09PM (flag as inappropriate)

  6. i cant watch the videos but i have been unfaithful to my partner i been with now 3 times. at the time i did it i didnt feel that my partner wanted me he always wanted to be with his m8s never wanted to talk to me or anything. basically i didnt feel wanted. but no after time i told him and it cut him to peices !!! ive never regretted something so much in my life but im lucky to say that he still loves me and couldnt be with out me”

    Posted by amy on 10th Sep at 8:50PM (flag as inappropriate)

The same time that I had an affair, he went and paid me back by having more affairs in the same period of time. ”

Matthew, 36

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