“I had one too many Alco pops and went back to his place…”
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A friend’s boyfriend actually snuck one of his Dad’s top shelf magazines out and we were having a bit of laugh reading one…”
“I had one too many Alco pops and went back to his place…”
“After I done it I felt happy and pleased that I had done it and good but I didn't feel like I needed to do it again anytime soon…”
“It was nervous time for me ‘cos I knew it was the first time for my wife as well. ”
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Posted by iopuiuiw on 23rd Oct at 4:32PM (flag as inappropriate)
Just read Laura's experience below (the message was written back in October) and would like to say the a man of 29 or 30 receiving oral sex, then having sex with a 14 year old is actually breaking the law, and bordering on paedophilia. I hope that man is ashamed of himself, he should be arrested for what he did to you Laura. And I hope you have gained some self respect since that experience, and know that you can have a fresh start. God bless you honey! x”
Posted by Stacey on 23rd May at 4:44PM (flag as inappropriate)
"I new this guy since i was a little girl and we just got back in contact and he was so understanding a was the only guy in our group of friends that had such respect for girls. One night we started snogging then the day after he fingered me and i tossed him off then the week later we had sex in a unpleasant enviroment. I was 15 and really scared because some people found out i spent alot of the time crying but no guy is worth them tires."”
Posted by Jessica on 17th May at 1:26PM (flag as inappropriate)
me and my boyfreind had gone out and decided 2 go to his house,we ended up in his bedroom and we were talkin and we were snoggin and then he started kissing my neck and going down slowly i got a little uncomfortable because i knew what could happen and i wasnt ready for that,so i kind of pushed him off.i feel really bad although he understands i know he loves me and i love him,im just wonderin what do i do incase we end up in that situation again and im still not ready?”
Posted by Nicole on 31st Mar at 10:43PM (flag as inappropriate)
Katie just do what you feel is right, don't be pressured and don't listen to your friends if they make fun of him, you really like him that's what matters. Don't regret telling him your a virgin either because if he really likes you he wont care”
Posted by Becci on 31st Mar at 9:32PM (flag as inappropriate)
When I was 16 I had a boyfriend who was pretty much trying to pressure me into having sex with him. It really didn't feel right, and it didn't happen. I broke up with him and I'm glad nothing happened. Because when I was 19 I met this amazing guy who I felt completely comfortable around in every way, so I lost my virginity to him. It wasn't scary or anything, I was a little nervous but he made me feel so safe and comfortable and it was actually fun! I'm so glad I didn't give into pressure and waited, and I'm still with this amazing guy today. :)”
Posted by Sarah on 31st Mar at 10:27AM (flag as inappropriate)
a couple of months ago a lad asked me if i wanted to meet up with him 2 sleep with him i was so thrilled cus nites before i had asked him out and them i was just textin him. in the end it didnt happen (i wish it did ) cus all my mates found out what the texts were about and took the mick out of him. whilst i was textin him he sed i wud sleep with him and thats it and then i told him i was a vergin i felt reli stupid :S i still reli lyk him what shall i do ask to sleep with him or just stay the way i am ???? btw im only 14 that makes the situation worse”
Posted by katie on 8th Dec at 8:54PM (flag as inappropriate)
My first time wasn't how i though it would be, my then boyfriend was very immature and i felt embarrassed that i was still a virgin and didn't want him to know, so i had sex with a much older man a few times it was very painful and messy and i just couldn't wait till it was over and done with. I do regret it because i am now with a loving fella who is so understanding and special and i wish i had waited and given my virginity to him”
Posted by Leah on 29th Nov at 7:03PM (flag as inappropriate)
Well I'm 16 and i lost y viginity about 4 days ago for all the wrong reasons, but can someone please tell e if it only lasted around 40 seconds because the condom came off and then i ddin't want to, and it hurt but i'm not sure if it penetrated does that actually count???
anyway my advice is don't go out and have sex unless your stable.”
Posted by Alexandra on 19th Nov at 10:10PM (flag as inappropriate)
I lost my virginity when i was 14 to my best friend who I absolutely adored...he didn't feel the same for me I don't think. It was pretty disasterous, there was no passion and we weren't on the same wavelength, but I dont regret it today because I feel like I appreciate the passion and romance more that I have in the bedroom with my current partner. And to this day me and my first time are still very good friends. It has never been mentioned again.”
Posted by Katy on 22nd Oct at 5:29PM (flag as inappropriate)
I lost my virginity when i was 18, although i wanted to wait till i get married i was so in love with my boyfriend that 3 months after going out we just couldn't resist it. It was very sweet and romantic because itwas our first time for both pf us. Im now 30 and married with someone else but i'll never forget my first love”
Posted by gaby on 19th Oct at 9:00PM (flag as inappropriate)
i am 15 and i lost my viginiy when i was 13 i wish i could go back but we cant plz tell all out there wait and best”
Posted by becky on 18th Oct at 12:39PM (flag as inappropriate)
I am 16 years old, i lost my virginity a couple of days before my 16th birthday. i met my boyfriend (who is 18) on the 11th of june and ohh boy was i in love,,
and about a week later i lost my virginity to him. it was the most amazing experience of my life. and i dont wish id ov waited and i dont regret it, because im still with him to this day. My advice is just wait for mr right.”
Posted by Becky on 16th Oct at 10:00AM (flag as inappropriate)
I'm 18 now, lost my virginity when i was 16. My first experience was great, because we cared bout each other and made it special, im leaving this message because (to both girls and guys) its worth waiting, and getting really close to your partner first. Just because other people have sex for the fun of it doesn't mean it's right for you, and don't worry, there is always someone who will understand you enough to take it slow and make that connection first. It's natural to be a bit worried, and have questions, but talk to each other (they're probably thinking the same things!) and if you have to push yourself into it, don't. Most of all, enjoy it, its a part of life, live it the way you want, and maybe find someone to do the same.”
Posted by David on 15th Oct at 5:38PM (flag as inappropriate)
i lost my virginity when i was 15 not how i wanted to but it happened i knocked around with the wrong girl & she introduced me to these boys & some how 1 things led to another, it happened in the middle of no where in a field not exactly where i planned for my first time & not the age but thats what happens when you get in with the wrong people, if i could turn back the clock i would but its happened now.”
Posted by nadine on 14th Oct at 9:02PM (flag as inappropriate)
I am 15 and am a virgin. I recently entered a situation with a girl where I ended up choosing not to have sex. I was not attracted to her in that way and I was so nervous that I was shaking so badly that she noticed. It turned out to be very awkward and after abit of touchy feely I decided to stop before I dug myself into an even bigger whole.”
Posted by Sam on 14th Oct at 8:12PM (flag as inappropriate)
I lost my virginity at 14, it was a drunken one night stand with a boy i had liked once before. He was not a virgin, it lasted around 5 minutes and really wasn't worth the trouble it caused! I wish I'd waited for the right person. I cant turn back time now, I dont really regret it. I just wish I had been more careful for a start.”
Posted by Louise on 14th Oct at 7:57PM (flag as inappropriate)
I lost my virginity not long ago, and boy, do I really wish I'd waited.
It was a one night stand with a boy I barely knew, but know his girlfriend as she goes to my college. Everytime I see her I feel a pang of guilt in the pit of my stomach reminding me of that night.
If I could go back and do things differently, I know I would, but I don't see the point in dwelling.
I've decided that I will wait until I meet someone special next time, wait until I am in a relationship and am happy before I have sex again. I don't want to forget about the first time, but I want to learn from it, and I think I have.
Without that experience I wouldn't have realised that it's not just a physical thing, it's about two people who really like eachother (sounds cliche, but so true).
I want next time to be special, and I really don't care how long I have to wait until I meet the right person.”
Posted by b on 9th Oct at 7:27PM (flag as inappropriate)
I lost my virginity when I was 15 and I do not regret it at all. I am now 18 and have been with the guy I lost my virginty to since. I was with him 6 months before we evan spoke about it and I think itz important you know them well enough and are comfortable with someone seein you completely naked. To the 15 year old who is thinking about sleeping with her 16 year old boyfriend, I would say give it some time, see how he really feels about you first and then if your really sure you know him and he treats you great then go for it. Theres no rush, first times not that great anyway!lol!hope that helped you.”
Posted by Laura on 7th Oct at 9:08PM (flag as inappropriate)
So, the thing is i'm thinking of having sex for the first time, my boyfriend is 16 and i'm 15, we've been together for 3 months but i really like him i just dont know what to do??”
Posted by [No first name supplied] on 1st Oct at 7:27PM (flag as inappropriate)
I lost my virginity at the age of 15, i was in a relationship for just over a year, he was a sweet boy and he was romantic about everything. I don't regret it and wouldnt change it.”
Posted by lisa on 1st Oct at 1:20PM (flag as inappropriate)
well me and my mates decided to go out on a friday night.we saw some 2 men that one of my mate knew and we went around theirs. i got a bit drunk one thing led to another i ended up giving one of them oral sex becouse it was the first time i had met them. i was 14 at the time and he was about 29 or 3o. the next day i went around his i got off with his mate i ended up having sex with him and i lost my virginy. after the whole thing i felt so low and had let my self and my mum down at the end of the day i have learned from the mistakes.and hope other young people out there know that waiting is the right thing dont let a man seduce you.”
Posted by laura on 1st Oct at 10:10AM (flag as inappropriate)
I just turned 15 the week before, I was with him over a month [i thought that was longterm at the time], it was my idea and he was lovely and gentle and asked me was I sure and was I alright and we ended up going out for about 2 years.”
Posted by [No first name supplied] on 30th Sep at 9:14PM (flag as inappropriate)
I Lost my virginity a month after my 17th birthday. I Was 'seeing' a lad who said he wanted to wait to make things official. We got drunk and one thing led to another. it was the worst experience of my life. it hurt, and seen as it was my first time. i thought it was normal. until i found him bragging to his mates about how rough he was being. Nice.”
Posted by [No first name supplied] on 30th Sep at 8:54PM (flag as inappropriate)
I was just after turning 15 the week before, very curious and always had to be the first to do everyting. I was with him, 17, over a month [i thought that was longterm at the time] and it was my idea and arranged the week before. He was lovely and gentle and asked me was I sure and are you ok. It was rather sore. I ended up going out with him for nearly 2 years. The sex improved!”
Posted by [No first name supplied] on 30th Sep at 8:52PM (flag as inappropriate)
i lost my verginity with my best guy friend..... i was 14 at the time but we knew wach other very well and.....i dont know how to explain it but we dident want to do it with anyone els at the time and we were so young that we dident realy understand and we felt counftable with each other..were still intouch now and im 25 were still good friends..now i have a good paying job two kids and a boyfriend but my expierience........ .there was no other way to do it i felt really nervous infront of boys i would only kiss them what better way to do it than with your best boy mate.”
Posted by Kim on 26th Sep at 2:19PM (flag as inappropriate)
I'm Gay so it was with a Guy, and i felt really scared. So we were having a Laugh and all of a sudden he started kissing me and it went on from there. ”
Posted by Lee on 19th Sep at 7:44PM (flag as inappropriate)