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Lusipher answers How important are orgasms?

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  1. I have never had an orgasm since I had my son many years ago (38 ).to be exact.It takes so long trying that we, or our hands go to sleep.Any tips. ”

    Posted by margaret on 20th Sep at 9:56PM (flag as inappropriate)

  2. i dont think that reaching an orgasm is that important, as long as you are having sensual sex with your partner and you both enjoy the time that you spend doing it then it is not really an important issue just an added bonus! lol”

    Posted by Christina on 1st Apr at 12:08AM (flag as inappropriate)

  3. my ex told me yesterday that sex is pointless if u don't reach a orgasm, then he asked me y do i like sex if i never 'cum' i just sed i like the feeling of sex its gr8 but having an orgasm just isn't as importent 2 me”

    Posted by kay on 14th Oct at 11:47PM (flag as inappropriate)

  4. I agree, the act of sex is more important than an orgasm. If all you care about is getting an orgasm at the end then it's distracting.”

    Posted by Fay on 28th Sep at 4:50PM (flag as inappropriate)

To some people they almost seem to be the be all and end all of sex, like they have sex to have an orgasm, whereas I have sex because I like having sex.”

Lusipher, 32

Sex facts

  • On average the male orgasm lasts for 3-5 seconds.

Other people answering How important are orgasms?

  • Video by Shantelle

    “It should definitely be a yes because at the end of the day not all orgasms can be achieved through intercourse…”

    Shantelle, 27

  • Video by Danny

    “If you didn’t have orgasms you’d be questioning what was wrong.”

    Danny, 24

  • Video by Marsie

    “You can do that by playing with yourself, you don’t really need a guy to do that for you.”

    Marsie, 35

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