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  1. I agree with eilish. I think being up front is sexier and I would love my partner to be upfront when he wants sex. It drives me mad and makes me angry when I have to mind-read all the time. Our sex life can be non-existent for months! But when it happens it's GREAT! Is every body else really having it at least once a week? I'm missing out!”

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 9th Oct at 7:01PM (flag as inappropriate)

  2. when we first started to talk about it it was only a few hints and a bit akward but after the first few conversations it was easy and i felt comfortable talking about any thing now.”

    Posted by chloe on 23rd Sep at 8:01PM (flag as inappropriate)

  3. TOTALLY AGREE WITH LUSIPHER, 32. BEST WAY IS IF YOU WANT SOMETHING DOING JUST SAY, THESE DAYS YOU SHOULDNT BE SHY TO ASK A PARTNER WHAT YOU WANT OR WHAT THEY LIKE ... MAKES SEX FAR MORE ENJOYABLE AND AFTERALL THATS WHAT IT SHOULD BE!”

    Posted by Vicki on 23rd Sep at 8:01PM (flag as inappropriate)

  4. like your additude, up front and direct.Its the only way to be i reckon. Im very up front with my partner,but it drives me mad sometimes as he isn't like that with me, and it puts me off.”

    Posted by Eilish on 17th Sep at 8:59AM (flag as inappropriate)

I don’t drop hints, I can’t be doing with faffing around, if I want something from someone I’ll tell them. ”

Lusipher, 32

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