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  1. I have never been unfaithful, not in any of my relationships to date. But, I have had plenty of boyfriends who were unfaithful. Even my current one. But as I have grown into the woman I am now, I have come to understand why this happens. Actually, after he admitted to me his mistake, and we talked it over, I understand now the why of unfaithfulness. It has actually brought us closer together. We're very much a partnership now.”

    Posted by Samantha on 16th Jun at 2:10AM (flag as inappropriate)

  2. I commend you for your honesty. I am exactly the same as you - and yes, I'm a woman too.”

    Posted by R on 30th Mar at 10:52PM (flag as inappropriate)

  3. i agree slightly but sex is a thing that is more enjoyable when your in a realationship and happy not as a casual thing but i see what you mean its fun and exciting but only for a bit and the guilt after it isnt worth it in my opinion.”

    Posted by Rachel on 14th Nov at 11:34PM (flag as inappropriate)

  4. I have had a few casual sex experiences and a affair which lasted 6 months and i have a Buddy we turn to each other in times of need been married for 20+ yrs and i love my husband to bits so why do i do this?? i have no idea its fun , exciting and as long as no one finds out no one is getting hurt”

    Posted by kirsty on 24th Sep at 11:29AM (flag as inappropriate)

  5. Being unfaithful is the lowest point in any relationship. Ive had it done to me, my first boyfriend cheated on me with one of my friends. I was shattered, i think if you are the cheating kind dont expect to keep it up for the rest of your life as one day it WILL happen to you and you will be mortified. if youre a cheater youre a liar!”

    Posted by vicki on 21st Sep at 8:56PM (flag as inappropriate)

  6. Do what you have to do but never pretend or lie about it!! There's nothing sexier than a honest woman.”

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 19th Sep at 7:58AM (flag as inappropriate)

  7. i don't think it's about being able to separate sex whilst in a relationship it's about the trust”

    Posted by sophy on 16th Sep at 9:51PM (flag as inappropriate)

I’m quite sure that some people would be absolutely horrified at that and some people will understand completely.”

Karen, 42

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