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  1. I'm 15 and sure that I'm
    bisexual, been sure of it since
    I was about 9-10, then
    ofcourse the thought was more innocent like, I'd like to kiss a girl, but it made me realize that I like girls more than a friend.”

    Posted by Maria on 9th Oct at 9:58PM (flag as inappropriate)

  2. I'm 15 and i'm think i'm a bisexual. I like lads and have been in relationships with them, however, i think i prefer girls.
    I don't know why exactly i just do.
    I've asked my friends what they'd say if i was a bisexual just in conversation and they didn't think anything of it,but i don't know how they would respond if i said i was serious and i think i would be scared of that really, of not being accepted.”

    Posted by Danielle on 28th Aug at 11:29PM (flag as inappropriate)

  3. i dont care what sexuality someone is. i dont think its for any1 2 judge. if u can look at yourself in the mirror and same im happy the way i am "this is me" people should respect that or take a hike. even family shouls support u regardless of sexuality otherwise all they are doing is telling you 2 b something that your not.”

    Posted by ash on 27th May at 8:17AM (flag as inappropriate)

  4. im 15 and bisexual
    i think i like girls more though”

    Posted by Emma on 2nd Apr at 10:07PM (flag as inappropriate)

  5. im 15 and a girl.
    i think im bisexual.
    ive had a relationship with a boy but i like girls too. In fact i think i find girls more attractive. I like girls.
    I'm too scared to come out as bisexual because i'm scared of being judged.
    I just hope one day ill be able to say I like girls and i'm proud of it.”

    Posted by Effy on 1st Apr at 9:43PM (flag as inappropriate)

  6. knew i had felings for girls at the age of 14 and my first sexual experience was when i was 20 im till with her now and love her to bits xx”

    Posted by laura on 1st Apr at 7:19PM (flag as inappropriate)

  7. at last, someone who's talking the same language as me.”

    Posted by sarah on 16th Oct at 5:46PM (flag as inappropriate)

I discovered my sexuality very early on, I was a very precocious child so my earliest memory of sexual activity is when I was in kindergarten.”

Eileen, 26

Sex facts

  • The average ‘coming out’ age for young gay, lesbian and bisexual people is 14.
  • In the UK over 8% of men and almost 10% of women have had a sexual experience with a partner of the same sex.
  • It is estimated that between 6 and 8% of the UK population is gay, lesbian or bisexual.

Other people answering When were you sure of your sexual identity?

  • Video by Marie

    “I have never been sure of my sexuality one hundred percent. ”

    Marie, 39

  • Video by Marsie

    “I sort of started being attracted to women and I suppose went through my lesbian stage for a few years. And then I went through my bisexual stage.”

    Marsie, 35

  • Video by Peter

    “By the age of 9 I was aware that I had definite interests in, as some would say, the male section of the catalogue rather than the female.”

    Peter, 43

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