“...you like them as a person so when they give you a lift home and drop you off and that's it - you feel a bit used…”
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It was a bit of a joke for me to lose my virginity... and you know, it wasn’t the way I wanted it to happen”
“...you like them as a person so when they give you a lift home and drop you off and that's it - you feel a bit used…”
“I'd started seeing someone and it's turned out they've just wanted me for sex... ”
“I've been single for a long amount of time and I've said that's it I’m not waiting for the one I'm going out tonight I want to have sex. ”
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Posted by jxrmthaip on 23rd Oct at 4:39PM (flag as inappropriate)
Yeah. Havent we all been Used.
The point is. You think its the right Person And your Totally into Him.
But it turns out. He Just wants your Body,
I was Used On my first time. How Bad is that! And he Knew It was My first time (when we were in the bed lol)
He seemed Like the Perfect guy.
We were into all the same things and everything
But the thing im not proud about is the fact that we Had Only Known eachother for 4 days And the 4th day was when it happened.
See Id Been saving myself for someone id trusted and known a lont time. But It Just Happened.
Afterwards he was the perfect gentlemen we spent the whole day together He even walked me all the way home. Next day He's Fine in the Morning. Come Night time And he's totally Blanking me. He even blocked and deleted me off facebook!
But its cool.
Im Not gonna go get all upset coz someone Took my virginity And then Dumped me.
Its made me a better person. I can actually Go out and Be myself Without thinking does he wanna sleep with me. Coz thats what ill be thinking about them now XD
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Posted by Mia on 20th May at 11:09AM (flag as inappropriate)
Yeah, the thing is i was seeing someone for a few months really because it was complicated to go out with him because of his ex and i realy fell for this guy.. and i decided i wanted him to take me no matter what, he was gentle and propper sweet about it all. he looked me in the eye and told me he really liked me, we met up a few times after. and carried on as we were until one day he was making up he had problems with his ex' turns out he was having sex with someone else.. i was distraught. but in the end, turns out he was just like people said.
me and his ex girlfriend made up after a few months and she told me he was using me to get back at her .. wich tbh i know she was right, i know her not to lie.
sucks realli. but i wasent pressured.”
Posted by [No first name supplied] on 2nd Apr at 12:12AM (flag as inappropriate)
i do agree with you im not saying that us girls are all angles but i do find that alot of the one night stands is becuase of blokes aswell as girls leading blokes on... i have never agreed with doin a one night stand not the sort of thing im a looking for... but i have had it done to me many of time as for why i dont know most blokes i ask just say becuase i think ull be a great shag.. but as i know what bllokes think of me now i have to watch what i am doin and saying becuase i wouldnt want to lead sumone into sumthink that im not looking for”
Posted by [No first name supplied] on 22nd Oct at 9:03PM (flag as inappropriate)
in response to jenny lol I think they are a lot of users an game players out there, both guys an girls. personally ive never tried to jump in to bed an to just have sex with someone but ive had it done to me. they are a lot of girls who just want u to buy them there drinks pay for them an do what they want in bed then never speak to you again once your no longer useful. i think game playin is a bad thing, if you want one night stand thats fine as long its made clear an you dont lead anyone on. that goes for us blokes an you girls out there.”
Posted by Tom on 18th Oct at 12:22PM (flag as inappropriate)
all blokes are the same tho... they always want sex off you or they just want you for some confurt becuase they have split with partner... do you find that most bloke seem to get over relashionships really quick and then they go back out there and find more people to mess with there heads... but i do have to say kellie that all bloke's are the same and i dont know why we all put up with it all half of the time do u???”
Posted by jenny on 12th Oct at 1:22PM (flag as inappropriate)
i dont know what other girls think but i think that these days most boys use you for sex if you talk to boys online they all ask you to met them for sex or got out drinking they have to be the ones that show off infront of there mate becuase they have a girl thats goin back to there place to have sex... WHY DO ALL YOU BLOKE'S OUT THERE USE GIRLS JUST FOR SEX????”
Posted by jenny on 7th Oct at 8:36PM (flag as inappropriate)
i thought this lad who i was with for about 2 mnths really cared about me .. then wen i wenton holiday i came back and he told me that he got what he wanted and dont want 2 see me again and he was back with his ex .. x ”
Posted by kellie on 1st Oct at 8:46PM (flag as inappropriate)