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Bisexual Female. In a relationship. 42 years old. Age Virginity Lost: 13
How did you feel having an abortion?
“I make no apology for it… I can’t cry into my hankie and pretend to be something that I’m not.”
How do you talk to your partner about sex?
“Men’s attention span is not great, don’t say lots of words at them because they get lost and they lose interest.”
Have you ever been unfaithful?
“I’m quite sure that some people would be absolutely horrified at that and some people will understand completely.”
Have you ever had an open relationship?
“I’m quite sure that some of my friends would say I was always in a open relationship, the other person just didn’t know.”
Have you ever experienced awkwardness after sex?
“It was awkward in as much as it was uncomfortable and borderline painful but not in a good way”
Have you ever slept with more than one person at the same time?
“I don’t even know really how it happened, but it did. And it happened a few times. And it was really quite incredible, but absolutely exhausting.”
In your experience, do drink and drugs mix well with sex?
“I actually think that it’s very outrageous. I know I’ve done some outrageous things, but… ”
Have you ever been caught masturbating?
“If it got to the stage where I needed to masturbate in secret, I would think that there was something I needed to say about the relationship…”
How did you feel when you found out you were pregnant?
“I don’t know any woman that actually only buys 1 pregnancy test; you always buy at least 2, because you always think that the first one’s wrong”
What was sex like during pregnancy?
“The actual intricacies of trying to get your stomach into any position whatsoever that is comfortable enough to be able to shag, is almost impossible. ”
How did sex change after the birth of your first child?
“When it hurts you tense up, and… then you get stressed out and then you tense up, and it just got worse and worse.”
“I phoned everyone that I knew that was of any importance to me, all on the same day. And there were a few people that I had very odd reactions from.”
