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Straight Female. Married. 39 years old. Age Virginity Lost: 18
How did you feel having an abortion?
“I think I was just trying to keep my boyfriend interested in me. Mentally it was a lot harder. ”
What impact did abortion have on you longer term?
“You wonder what might have been. You wonder if you made the right decision.”
How did you lose your virginity?
“I was so embarrassed at being a virgin that I pretended I had lost my virginity on a French exchange.”
What do you worry about most when it comes to sex?
“It’s something that happens a lot at my stage of marriage and amongst my peers…”
How would you describe an orgasm?
“Having an orgasm for me is quite a functional thing. It’s a stress relief. ”
“I subsequently went on to the pill as you tend to do when you’re in a long term relationship, but obviously I hadn’t been at that time and too excited, or drunk, or silly to use a condom…”
How did you feel when you found out you were pregnant?
“I knew I had done something wrong, or I felt I had done something wrong. ”
“My sex drive is pretty high I would say, going on by what my husband says and all the boyfriends I’ve had before. It’s not usually a problem…”
How do you handle a partner with a different sex drive?
“When I’ve had a partner with a different sex drive, you’ve got two choices…”
