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Ben answers How did you lose your virginity?

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    Posted by piccrtam on 23rd Oct at 4:34PM (flag as inappropriate)

  2. i know how you feel i lost my vaginity to an older woman who took controll aswell!”

    Posted by chris on 30th Mar at 9:39PM (flag as inappropriate)

  3. I was 14 and i had been with my partner for 7 months before we were ready to have sex but we did and we both were virgins to begin with and we were together for a following 6 years and have a daughter together who is now nearly 6. and I never regretted It at all and I am glad I did it with someone I trusted and loved at the time.”

    Posted by Becks on 14th Oct at 10:01PM (flag as inappropriate)

  4. I was with the boy for nearly 6 months and he was my "first" love. I was really set on having my first time as special so it was in his house in bed rather than in a park or alley! I was so nervous and worried about exposing myself and what he would think as he was older than me. I even remember him running to the local garage for condoms, which i was so glad about because i probably would of done it without, i was naivee! The sex was ok, it hurt and i didnt get much pleasure but i expected this. I was so proud and really thought i was in a grown up relationship with alot of trust, but little did i know he wasnt a virgin at all and had lied. I was gutted and felt used, so really i regret my first time. You need trust!”

    Posted by [No first name supplied] on 20th Sep at 1:15PM (flag as inappropriate)

She came out of the, er, bathroom, in full stockings, suspenders and everything and I was like, “Oh my God”.”

Ben, 30

Sex facts

  • In England, Wales and Scotland, the legal age of consent for any kind of sexual intercourse activity is 16 for both men and women, whether the sex is of a hetero or homosexual nature.
  • The average age when people in the UK lose their virginity is 16.
  • Between 20 and 23% of British people have sex before the legal age of consent.

Other people answering How did you lose your virginity?

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    “I had one too many Alco pops and went back to his place…”

    Ricki, 26

  • Video by Shantelle

    “After I done it I felt happy and pleased that I had done it and good but I didn't feel like I needed to do it again anytime soon…”

    Shantelle, 27

  • Video by Raj

    “It was nervous time for me ‘cos I knew it was the first time for my wife as well. ”

    Raj, 37

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