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“Your sex life is for each other, you give yourself to the other person,and masturbation is very kind of, self indulgent, you kind of do that for your own pleasure.”
“Masturbation is a solo activity. It’s not sex. ”
“I’ve discovered lots of things about myself through obviously trying things out…”
“You know I used to do it at school. I used to have competitions with my friends in the toilets.”
“I think you need to know your own body and you need to know what it is that makes you tick.”
“When you haven’t got a man in your life and you're finding it difficult to sleep... ”
“If you don’t like yourself… then I don’t think you enjoy masturbating, but if you like yourself, if you like the body you’re in, then you’re gonna like masturbation a bit more.”
“It was recommended to me a few years ago by a friend of mine. And that entails using, er, a power shower…”
“It can provide a benchmark for what the other partner likes doing, how they like to be touched, what they enjoy doing.”
“I do actually find it a big turn on when I wake up sometimes in the middle of the night and I know that he’s sort of caressing himself…”
“That is really difficult question. It sounds really lame because it depends how busy I am. If you are having a super busy week I just come home and go to sleep and then get up again, shower, get up. ”
“I have tried on many occasions but I end up laughing at myself …”
“Masturbation is great but sex with someone else is even better. ”
“I’m kind of sat there chocking the chicken really, really fast and then I pull them back up and get the train. ”