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  1. He's not talking about sex with girls though Nika! He means no condom, no sex. Fair enough”

    Posted by Joey on 29th Jul at 10:11AM (flag as inappropriate)

  2. You sound very arrogant in your comment. You present the contraceptive pills as kind of 'world' saving solution. I wonder if there have been any pills for men whether you should be willing to take them knowing that it will change the way your body naturally works. The pill doesn't work for everyone and that also should be accepted and girl who doesn't want to take it shouldn't be labelled as bad!”

    Posted by Nika on 4th Apr at 7:07PM (flag as inappropriate)

All this would have been discussed and negotiated before the sexual encounter even takes place. And if they say they don’t want to use contraception during the negotiations…”

Alex, 32

Sex facts

  • In a global sex survey, more than a quarter of UK respondents said they did not use contraception the first time they had sex.
  • In the UK, contraception is free on the NHS.
  • Condoms are the only form of contraception that protect against STIs as well as pregnancy.

Other people answering Have you ever had a problem convincing a partner to use contraception?

  • Video by Danny

    “And I was like, that’s dead naff to say that, that’s killed it for me already.”

    Danny, 24

  • Video by Rob K

    “It really scares me the number of partners that I’ve had who have been quite happy to not even discuss safer sex.”

    Rob K, 25

  • Video by Annikka

    “Most guys from my experience, will have bareback, or unprotected sex, if you allow them to.”

    Annikka, 27

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