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When were you sure of your sexual identity?

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  • I'm not 100% sure about my sexuality. I'm 15 and I do look at girls and think "Wow, you are actually really nice" but not like that. It is really hard to explain my feelings but I no I'm not gay as I do LOVE a lot of things about guys which seems to be "normal" my feelings is mainly towards my best friends as they are all beautiful but i'm not sure if that is because I am real close with them or that I am "BI" I'm so confused... I personally think it will all become apparent when I am older and more sexually active.

    Posted by Sammy on 26 July 2011  |  5 people found this useful

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  • growing up i was always in denial that i was gay. i always told myself that whoever i kiss first would determine my sexuality but that wasn't the case. i finally admited to myself that i was gay. it was really hard coming out to my friends because they always joked about me being gay and i would always say no but it just of came out. all my close friends know and i have finaly become comfartable to tell all my friends.

    Posted by tristan on 26 August 2011  |  1 person found this useful

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  • growing up i was always in denial that i was gay. i always told myself that whoever i kiss first would determine my sexuality but that wasn't the case. i finally admited to myself that i was gay. it was really hard coming out to my friends because they always joked about me being gay and i would always say no but it just of came out. all my close friends know and i have finaly become comfartable to tell all my friends.

    Posted by tristan on 26 August 2011  |  1 person found this useful

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  • I'm not 100% sure about my sexuality. I'm 15 and I do look at girls and think "Wow, you are actually really nice" but not like that. It is really hard to explain my feelings but I no I'm not gay as I do LOVE a lot of things about guys which seems to be "normal" my feelings is mainly towards my best friends as they are all beautiful but i'm not sure if that is because I am real close with them or that I am "BI" I'm so confused... I personally think it will all become apparent when I am older and more sexually active.

    Posted by Sammy on 26 July 2011  |  5 people found this useful

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  • Im 15. I think i may be bisexual but im not sure if the feelings im having towards girls (mostly seems to be my bestfriends) is sexual or if its just because im so close to them? Ive told 3 of my close friends. One of which i have strong feelings for. I have told her the feelings i have for her and shes been extremely supportive. I tend to joke about being bisexual to my other friends to see their reactions, which allows me to see if they would be supportive of it if i told them. If their reaction is bad i pretend im joking. This really brings my mood down as im unaware of my sexuality.

    Posted by Sammie on 03 June 2011  |  1 person found this useful

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  • I'm really confused, I find myself aroused to boys but then when we sexually do things I don't enjoy it, how ever I think through my head how I would like to try things with girls, but i'm to scared to find someone to do things with and what people will say if they find out...

    Posted by Louise on 24 April 2011  |  1 person found this useful

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