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About Sexperience

Sex is not simple. There aren't always easy answers. Sexperience brings together a rich mix of people's real experiences to help you find out what might work for you and your partner.

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I'm 51 and i have still not had sex, i have met a girl she is 32 and very up for it but I'm not sure how i should tell her I'm still a virgin?
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Your experiences

Seriously it didn't hurt me but it was with someone I really love and I did it at the right time. People told me it hurt so much but then I did it and it was really enjoyable. Only do it if your ready and don't let anyone force you into somet…”

faye on Did sex hurt the first time you did it?
I'm 21, I don't really see guys as that attractive, but when I'm quite aroused, ill happily experiment online with other guys, but its something that has been bothering me. Do I actually go for it in person and give it a try? Or do I keep doi…”

Joel on how do you know if youre bi? coz i havent had sex yet, im a 15 yr old male and i fancy guys more than girls but i still find girls attractive
I am a 25 year old virgin. I would definitely tell someone if I met them because a relationship is all about trust so be honest from the start. If she doesn't mind and still wants you its better than lying to her and her finding out.”

amy on i'm 51 and i have still not had sex, i have met a girl she is 32 and very up for it but im not sure how i should tell her im still a virgin?