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About Sexperience

Sex is not simple. There aren't always easy answers. Sexperience brings together a rich mix of people's real experiences to help you find out what might work for you and your partner.

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What porn doesn't tell you

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The Sex Education Show Vs Pornography

Britain is in a state of sexual meltdown and the most at risk are teenagers. Up to two thirds of teens are receiving potentially harmful information and impressions about sex via internet pornography. It’s time to fight back with some sex and relationship education. Find out more...

Your experiences

Two months ago, I felt exactly the same as you! I hadn't had a boyfriend and I hadn't been kissed! I found a boyfriend through my friends. Everyone thinks we are perfect together, we get on amazing, I'm so glad he was my first kiss (: nobody…”

Imi. on I'm 16 and I've never had a boyfriend in my life! Is this normal? All of my friends are either in a relationship or have been before, so I feel like I'm a freak!
I'm fifteen and a virgin. I feel quite proud actually because most people my age have already lost theirs. I'm saving myself until it is legal for me to be having sexual relationships even though I'm already in love with a totally amazing boy…”

charli on How did you know you were ready to lose your virginity?
I am 37 and I've slept with around 75 people. I'm not trying to boast. I'm really not. I really wish sometimes that the number was a lot lower, That I had had a much less interesting sex life up until now. I have HSV1 and I have no idea where…”

justin on What is the average number of sexual partners that a person can expect to have in their life??